Friday 28 February 2014

Meeting my boyfriend


So eleo and I go way back. We use to date other people but hung around each other sometimes.. That's how we knew eachother. We officially met and started being friends in 2010. Eleo and I had met at night school. I was taking an extra credit just cause, nerd right? Lol anyways. I didn't really like him, I actually disliked him. I remember turning to my friend at the time and saying "is this a joke, why is he in this class". Little did I know, that this was the guy I was going to fall in love with.. Well as time passed, we were doing a Halloween Haunted House I forget where, we were actually helping set it up. Eleo started talking to me, and sure I started talking back.. Small talk, nothing big. It was raining one night and he offered to drive me home.. I declined for the only reason, my friend was with me and I didn't want her to take the bus home by herself.. It was pretty far and I felt bad.. Well days kept passing by we started talking more and more.. Only in person though we didn't have eachothers numbers yet. I was starting to get pretty flirty with him.. If you read my other blogs you'd know that I was in a pretty big ditch right before I met him. Going through a lot of stuff because of my previous boyfriend.. So I felt like I was finally catching a break.. Time went on and we started hanging out more and more besides it being at night school. He started driving me home from night school too. It seemed like both of us were experiencing the same stuff. One night he kissed me... I was pretty happy I mean I really liked him at this point. Well it was too good to be true.. He still didn't completely break off connection with one of his exes, they weren't dating, but they were friends. And my ex was still crazy as ever stalking me and what not... So we spent a lot of time fighting where we just stopped talking.. Around Christmas time we started talking again..  We went out had fun, drove everywhere did lots of things. I mean I was head over heels for this guy. We started dating in January 2011. From there it was still pretty rocky.. But we stuck it out. We actually broke up for a couple months and got back together in April 2011. Our problems consisted of our exes not allowing us to be together, spreading a ton of rumors about eleo and I.. They bascially made it physically impossible to be together.. Well this never ended we just decided to fight for our realtionship, we were happy together if people didn't like that then that was just too bad. Now that doesn't mean we didn't fight cause we do fight and that normal!!! Everyone has arguments. I use to be a verrrry jealous person to, which caused a lot of arguments. But hey, I got over it. We ended up breaking up the summer before I started college cause we fought a lot. We ended up getting back together and on our 2 year anniversary I found out that we were expecting. I was scared shitless 18 years old about to have a baby.. He was scared too, but very excited!!! He was honestly the best boyfriend when I was pregnant. I craved something, he got it. I was mad, he tried to make me happy. Lol if you read my other blog you'd know I was miserable pregnant! High five to my boyfriend to sticking It out!!! Lol. He was there for me when I was in labor tried to make me as comfortable as possible. Nothing really helped in that situstion though, I was in pain and nothing was gunna help. But he was great. He didn't pass out in delivery, squirm nothing!!! He's a great father to his daughter and a great boyfriend. We still have our fights.. But we are still together and we work everything out. We wanna show our daughter a strong relationship, so when she grows up she doesn't have to go through what I did or him. We made 3 years this January, we live together,  and it's been hard, but it's a great learning experience! 


Hope this gives everyone a little background of us:D 

Thanks for reading :)

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